<h2 class = 'uawtitle'>How Not to Care About What Others Think of You</h2><br />
<div style='font-style:italic;' class='uawbyline'>by Philip van</div><br /><br />
<div class='uawarticle'>Sometimes paying too much attention to what others think or say about you can affect your life too much. That is if you value everything they say about you.<br />
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Often when making difficult decisions, the opinion and judgement of others will get in the way of what your really what to do.<br />
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Peoples reactions may often dictate whether or not you decide to make changes in your life.<br />
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Taking others views and opinions in a positive way can help you gather positive feedback. But placing too much value on what others think and do will keep you in the same old path, stuck in the place that you are trying so hard to get out of.<br />
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So how can you overcome this common issue and find more inner freedom to do what you want? Well, people will always have thoughts and opinions about things. But you can learn how to care about what they say and think in a more helpful way.<br />
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When we overvalue what others might say about us, we are just holding ourselves back in life. This is due to us caring too much about other people's opinions. It is possible because we don't want people to laugh or make fun of us.<br />
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One way to approach that problem would be to think that other people are too busy to worry about what you are going to do. Yes you may end up feeling unimportant, but you have just opened up a whole new world of freedom for yourself.<br />
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To other people you are more than likely not the most important person in their world, it would probably be themselves or their family. So it would be foolish to think otherwise.<br />
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My mindset for praise - that I try to stick to as much as I can - is that it's cool and I appreciate it. It's great to get praise, but I seldom get overly excited about it and jump and down shouting enthusiastically.<br />
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A great upside of this mindset is that when you receive the opposite - negative criticism - you can often observe it calmly without too much wild, negative emotions blocking the way. This allows you to appreciate that piece of criticism too (if there is something to learn from it).<br />
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Going about things this way can help you to not care too much about what other people think.<br />
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If someone is pretty much always negative about what other people do or he or she often makes personal attacks and let the destructive words flow then, when such things are aimed at you, remember that it isn't always about you.<br />
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Such words or negative habits can be a way for that person to release pent up anger, frustration or jealousy about something in his or her own life. Or a way to reinforce that his or her viewpoint or belief is the right one. Or he or she may have habit of getting others involved emotionally - baiting them - to build a negative spiral, an argument or fight to get attention. It's about him or her. Not about something you did or want to do.<br />
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In addition, remember this, every once in a while everyone is bound to have a bad day.<br />
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Sometimes people do have something to say of value. So it would be stupid to just stop care about what they say completely.<br />
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<div class='uawlinks'>These are but a few tips to help you. Sometimes a simple picture can provide all the <a href="http://www.inspirationalpicturequotes.net">inspiration</a> you need. Just remember to listen carefully to what <a href="https://www.facebook.com/InspirationalPictureQuotes">people</a> say about you.</div><br />
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Title: How Not to Care About What Others Think of You<br />
Author: Philip van<br />
Email: jmacdula@gmail.com<br />
Keywords: self help, motivational, facebook, picture quotes, quotes, famous quotes, god,religion, depression<br />
Word Count: 563<br />
Category: Motivation<br />
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