<h2 class = 'uawtitle'>How To Improve Your Relationships In Just Five Easy Steps</h2><br />
<div style='font-style:italic;' class='uawbyline'>by Andrew Wilkin</div><br /><br />
<div class='uawarticle'>Is there somebody in your life you would like to have a more solid relationship with, a colleague, a partner, a loved one, a chum or neighbor?<br />
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Perhaps you're thinking that there is little you can do to modify this, after all it's the other guy or girl who's the problem isn't it?<br />
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While there may be some truth in that, isn't it entertaining that not everybody seems to have an identical issue with her or him as we do? What that means is we can probably have a sounder relationship with them than we now do.<br />
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So what can we do in just 5 easy steps?<br />
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- <a href="http://nlpmarin.com/whats-right-about-whats-wrong/">Stop judging others, or asking why are they doing that</a>, I'd never do that. The majority of people will admit to this behavioral pattern, including me <br />
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- Listen to them without disrupting, completing their sentences, correcting them, or pondering all of the other stuff you could be doing instead <br />
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- Learn from the best sales people, who use the proverb you have 2 ears and 1 mouth, use them in that proportion <br />
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- Find at least one good thing to say of them and genuinely mean it, people know at some level when you are being fake <br />
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- Talk at the same pace and pitch as they do, if you talk fast and they talk slow you?ll find it tougher to communicate. <br />
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What if you are talking about relationships not conducted in person or over the telephone? Perhaps you communicate thru email or are connected from social media.<br />
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If you do communicate only in written form (even online), and can pick up the telephone, then do so. It's much easier to build a relationship that way, it's amazing how folks become more real when we connect with them in real life or hear their voice.<br />
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If you can only write:<br />
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- Don't launch directly into the content <br />
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- Do refer back to a point of agreement during the past <br />
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- Do believe they cannot probably know all that you do or what's in your head, so what else would they have to know <br />
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- Do think what you need from the other party, and ask them politely for it, once again they aren't mind readers, and yes they are living in their own world <br />
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- Don't copy the whole of the world or try to point score, it's going to reflect badly on you just as much or more so. <br />
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Finally, head the cautionary alert handed down by parents, 'if you have got nothing nice to say, say nothing ', and consider that the same rule applies for Tweets, e-mails and Facebook posts.<br />
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About the Author:<br />
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<div class='uawlinks'>Andrew Wilkin is a Master NLP Specialist, Authorized Hypnotherapist and the founder of <a href="http://www.DreamTimeline.com">Dream Timeline</a>, a free site to help people visualise their dreams using <a href="http://www.DreamTimeline.com/visionboard">online vision boards</a>.</div><br />
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Title: How To Improve Your Relationships In Just Five Easy Steps<br />
Author: Andrew Wilkin<br />
Email: dirasu.664600.0@articlesamurai.com<br />
Keywords: personal development,business setting<br />
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Category: Motivation<br />
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