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<div style='font-style:italic;' class='uawbyline'>by Jayde Johanssen</div><br /><br />
<div class='uawarticle'>There is so much information about dating and internet dating out there. Everyone is an expert. Have you noticed though most of the advice is all doom and gloom. How to avoid this disaster, how to recognise that scam. It can't be that hard, all you are doing after all is trying to meet someone.<br />
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So I am taking a different approach with this article. Instead of making it confusing, difficult or scary, I am hopefully going to remind you that dating should be simple and fun. That's it. So here are my top three tips for fun dating.<br />
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Tip 1. Make a plan. You need to understand two things before you can make your plan. You need to understand the kind of person you are looking for. You also need to be aware of the type of experience you are looking for with that person.<br />
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Many people are full of advice about what you want, what type of people are right for you and what experiences are ok to have. The problem is that these people's opinions more reflect what is right for them, not what is right for you. So if you listen to them rather than yourself, you are starting your dating process by looking for a date and experience that is suitable for someone else.<br />
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Trust your own judgement and enjoy the results of your own decisions. Every date will not work out perfectly and we all have relationships which fail. But this is a good thing. It helps you understand yourself, learn what you need in life and recognise it when it arrives. Much better you learn these lessons for you rather than learn someone else's lessons.<br />
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2. When you know what type of person and experience you are looking for, go to a dating site which specifically addresses those qualifications. There are many dating sites out there which cater to specifics. As such, you can dramatically increase your chances of dating success by starting with a dating site which pre-qualifies your potential dates, along the lines of the qualities you are looking for.<br />
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If you know who you are looking for and join up at a regular dating site, you are going to have to deal with all the people you don't want to meet, before you find the people you do want to meet. All those profiles and emails you will have to waste time on. Why bother when you can cut many people you do not want to meet out of the equation, simply by joining a website which has already done it for you. For example, if you want to meet someone of christian faith, you can join a christian dating site and not deal with non-christians. If you love Asian culture and that is high on your list, join an Asian dating site. If you are looking for a fast paced steamy experience, an adult dating site is the answer. Or a more sophisticated experience, maybe a site which caters to the wealthy is the one for you. Each of these niche dating sites appeal to a certain type of person and experience and filters out others. This should make your life easier.<br />
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My third and final tip is to always keep it safe. You'll never have a fun time if you're not feeling safe. So apply common sense and your own set of safety precautions to all real life dating experiences.<br />
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Never give anyone more than you want to give them, if there is a question in your mind about it. Don't give them your email address, don't give them your phone number, don't give them your time. Trust is something that a new person in your life has to earn. You'll know yourself when they have earned it so only progress your dating as that trust is built and you have more confidence that you trust will be honoured and nurtured.<br />
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Once you have met someone in real life, you really should reset your expectations of them to ZERO. Pretend you never contacted them on the internet and start dating them in exactly the same way you would date someone you met in society proper.<br />
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Dating should always be fun, you are finding out about yourself and others. For greatest success though remember - Safe, Specific and Simple.<br />
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<div class='uawlinks'>Jayde Johanssen has assisted hordes find love, by giving real <a href="http://www.datingdownunder.com.au">dating advice</a> and giving <a href="http://www.datingdownunder.com.au/dating%20site%20reviews.htm">dating site reviews</a>.. Also published at <a href="http://www.uberarticles.com/home.php?id=73049&p=67776">Online Dating - Remember You Are Allowed To Have Fun</a>.<br />
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Title: Online Dating - Remember You Are Allowed To Have Fun<br />
Author: Jayde Johanssen<br />
Email: articles@oceanfeather.com.au<br />
Keywords: online dating,dating,happiness,advice,love,singles,long distance,internet,reconnecting,friendship<br />
Word Count: 718<br />
Category: Happiness<br />
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